Episode 03

INTRODUCTION TO RELATIONSHIP ( Reasoning explained)

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Wow, in this episode I will be talking about something very important, as an added part that takes us to the second phase of our subject.

If there is a thing that will help you maintain yourself and your relationship is proper reasoning

And that is reasoning

Reasoning Is the ability to think and work through various concepts. It also means expressing a concept in words

What sometimes makes you not to understand the other person is because you can’t even understand yourself.

The Bible says “we have been given the spirit of power, love and SOUND MIND”

2 Timothy 1:7
[7]For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.

In your life, there is a time when the Spirit of God in you responds by power,. Where your authority as a child of God manifests.

And sometimes you have to let love of Christ respond to situations around you. At this time if you apply power you might end up ruining everything 😂😂😂😂And also time when it only requires sound mind to respond to situations around you.

These are the three manifestations of the children of God.. And all these three dimensions work together.

What makes you powerful and successful is not how much power you can manifest, no no sir, but the way you can control it by proper reasoning.

Some of you even after you were born again still find it difficult to make it in your marriages or relationships, because you are only taught to master in one area. Shandarizing🤔🤔 pulling and digging and cutting😂😂😂
And then you wonder, “how come that man, that lady who is not even born again/ that fellow who is not deep in God as I am is doing well with their partner, but I’m facing these challenges, why is it like everybody whom I get runs away from me?”🤔🤔 Or “what is it that they have that I don’t have”

Brother/sister you can speak in tongues for seventy hours and think you are deep in God. No sir. You are not deep in such. You have only mastered one part of God. Not all parts.
Yes, you are filled with the Holy Spirit, but even the Holy Spirit in you is having a hard time training you😆😆

Because you have not allowed Him to express Himself in the three dimensions accordingly. That is “Power, love and sound mind ( a proper reasoning mind)”

Hear this;
If you can’t reason well, no matter how much power you can show in prayer, let me just say you will be abusing the power of God. Misusing it due to your ignorance in some areas.

You can love but as much as you can’t reason well, you might end up embracing and hugging troubles. “But…. but…. but I love him/her” and God is saying no child she is not going to end well with you. And then you keep on, arguing and quoting scriptures concerning love. “As Jesus loved me and gave Himself for me so I’m giving myself for that gentleman/that lady, she/he will change” brother/sister you are getting into the pit of hell with your eyes open😂😂😂

It is just that you don’t know the way of love,. “What if leaving him/her is going to save both of your lives”.

There are places where people marveled at Jesus not because of miracles but because of His teachings and judgements. His attitudes towards situations.

Even the devil himself, can not just attack your marriage if you have not at any time given him a chance to. Knowingly or unknowingly.

What you think concerning your relationship is the best way to either allow God to promote you or allow the devil to attack and scatter you.
You own thoughts may end up, promoting you or attack you.
Why are you thinking the way you think?….. Is it really true?….. What will happen after saying what you are thinking?
How will she/he take this kind of statement from me?

You can have your very beautiful blessed sister fornicating, not because she was fornicating before, but because of the words you keep on feeding her. The kind mindset you are expressing towards her.

Your parents don’t hate you the way you think they do,
It is your interpretation of their treatment that is misleading you.

A twenty two twenty five or unmarried girl, returning home very late at night. And still expect her parents to clap and hug her,. The moment parents get angry at such type of behavior, then she locks herself in her bedroom sobbing and crying “😭😭 am alone on this planet, no one seems to understand me, no one is good towards me, everybody sees me as a bad person”. Calling her friends on phone including her boyfriends ( I mean friends who are boys) explaining to them how the mother yelled at her. Shame on you sister, you are just blind with a catapult mindset – throwing blames on everyone that seems to care about your integrity.
Just return nicely to the cross sister.

Learn to see everything around you as a blessing

To be continued….

© HEAVENLIFE NETWORK MINISTRIES 2021

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