Episode 04

INTRODUCTION TO RELATIONSHIP (Reasoning explained) Part 2

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Learn to see everything around you as a blessing
What we call sorrow is not really what it seems to be.

Sorrow is not something that you can say “there it is or here it is” because sorrow is in your mindset. They way you interpret things and situations. That one gives you sorrow

Sorrow is not even in the situations themselves, sorrow is in the interpretation of the situations

When you are thrown out of the house, that one doesn’t give you sorrow, but rather what comes to your mind after that is what creates sorrow.

Knowing that you have God in you, who is the best gift ever. There is no way that gift can carry sorrow.

Your parents are gifts from God, your children are gifts from God.

And the Bible says
Proverbs 10:22
[22]The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.

God doesn’t add regrets with His gifts

When God gives you that man, that woman, that mother, that father, that daughter, that son, that house, that project, that ministry, that job, that car, that friend, that business that blessings don’t come with regrets, God can’t give you something that will later make you regrets.

Hear this.

The regrets comes not with the blessings but from your reasonings
If it is God that has given it to you, then know that if you are ever going to feel sorry for having such a blessing then the problem is not going to come from the gift, but from you and your ignorance ( your ungratefulness _ not being able to appreciate what God has done, and what He is doing, inability to see the hand of God even in smaller things).

Am I communicating something here?

The reason you feel like running away from that job, that Relationship, that marriage, those parents when it was God that gave it to you. Is not because of them, but because of YOU. It is an indication that you are not growing in the understanding of God.

The devil has a way of making things look bad to you. Even if they are from God. The devil will try so hard to deceive your mind, and make you think that you are at a dangerous place, and to make you think that there is much better place than where you are right now. The moment you entertain those thoughts, it will no longer be the devil attacking you, but you will be the one attacking your blessings

May God help my brothers and sisters reading this, and if you are joining now, please read from the top and follow slowly.

When you are in the place of blessings, The devil will come with statements in your head that will make you think that your eyes are now being opened. He will make you think that you were blind before,. If your eyes were once opened to see God, the devil will try to open your eyes to see evil, and to know sin.

The devil will try to teach you that you are not at the right place, maybe there is a better person than the one you are having now. And you will begin to concieve such sin in your heart and mind. And when you have become pregnant with that idea it will grow and then deliver a child known as death.

This is what the devil did with Adam and Eve at the garden of Eden. Making them think that God was hiding something from them. Something that they had to discover. Devil taught them that there is a new discovery that God is hiding from you. And later they found themselves in trouble.Reasoning reasoning reasoning. If this part is not empowered by the Holy Spirit. Then you are in trouble.

You might end up loosing your blessings every time. With your own hands you will find yourself destroying your house.

As it is written👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
Proverbs 14:1
[1]Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

On this Earth, there are strong bonds, strong covenants that even angels or the devil can not break. Covenants that even the devil or angels can not surpass. Yes, covenants that even God Himself respects. And that is the covenant of marriage

Once you are married there are some curses that will break by themselves, because of the covenant that you have set yourself into.

There are curses that automatically break just in the name of marriage, I’m telling you.

And since this covenant is stronger to an extent that the devil can’t surpass. The only people who can break it are those who are engaged into that covenant..

So the devil will just raise a negative thought, so that you can misbehave and harass the covenant. Making you think that there is a better guy/ a better lady outside. Treating your husband/wife in a very crooked manner. Until you break it yourself. Until you ruin your own house with your own hands, like a foolish woman.The devil will raise false reasonings, so that you end up attacking your blessings with your own hands. Because he knows that he can’t take it away from you, except you give it to him yourself.

Am I teaching something here?

Another covenant is the covenant of salvation The one you have with Jesus Christ to become a child of God. The devil can’t break that. Until you yourself decide to rebel against the Holy Spirit
Your own mindset will tell you that salvation is difficult😂😂, so you will try to think that maybe there is a simpler way than salvation.

As it is written👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
Matthew 7:13-14
[13]Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat:
[14]Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.

Devil knows that people love it when you tell them of some relaxing and simple method, and they don’t consider the end of it. They just move with the concept that there is some simple way, not how it going to end. Tell them that this man is better than your fiance, this lady is better than your fiancee. And right away they will jump from one Relationship to the other. Without realizing that they are doing thousands of sins all together, first betrayal second irresponsibility , third adultery/fornication fourth abuse fifth rebellion sixth. filthiness. Seventh. disobedience. And many other sins around.Including self- righteousness (kujihesabia haki).

Allow God to correct your reasoning first before engaging into any Relationship first

Allow God to prove you worthy of having that brother/sister before you rush into searching for your own.

Just accepting Jesus today doesn’t qualify you for marriage.

Accepting Jesus today, qualifies you for the kingdom of God, ili utengenezwa na kufundishwa, but doesn’t qualify you for marriage.

If you are a minister here or a pastor I believe you can prove this.👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻

The day you were born again, is not the same day you became a pastor. Even though Jesus saved you from your sins, still He couldn’t trust you with the lives of His people😂😂. Until He trained you and found you worthy for the ministry, is when He released you into the ministry, because He saw that “My people are now safe in your hands”

Marriage is also a ministry, where characters are developed, where God fearing generations are birthed, where the Divine nature of Christ and church is revealed. Being born again or being found in the church doesn’t mean that you qualify for such ministry

Are you following this?

In the same house of God we vary in standards according to our readiness of fearing and obeying God.

You can choose from the church, and yet choose a babe/ a child in the kingdom of God. In the same kingdom we have babies too😂😂😂

Listen am quoting scriptures here😂😂😂

Just because she is a member of the praise and worship team doesn’t make her martured enough to contain you.

Everybody in the kingdom of God has things that they enjoy, even babies have things they enjoy too in the house of God,. The Love of Christ as a family is what we all enjoy.

The Bible says it this way👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻

2 Timothy 2:20
[20] But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour.

Look at this, there are standards in Kingdom

Praying doesn’t make you spiritual,

We don’t pray to become spiritual, but because we are spiritual we pray

The moment you accept Jesus Christ in your life, you become spiritual creation. You become a spirit because you are born of the spirit. Yet as a spirit there is a need for you to be trained by the Holy Spirit. Meaning that we can still have some unlearned spirits in the kingdom.

But God is faithful, when you go to Him trusting Him for a wife/ husband He will check your standards of knowing Him first, then He will look around for someone who at least maches with your flow in Him. And the only way to spiritually detect the readiness and growth is HUMILITY How much is that fellow humbled to learn

God will check in His house, who is the best for you. And that one He will give to you.

When we say that “he/she comes from God” what we mean is not because you have seen him/her in the church. But because God Himself has approved her suitable for you. Then we can say “he/she comes from God”

But how do you know, if that one is approved by God for you or not?🤔🤔.

For the Bible says, “we have the mind of Christ” meaning that we can read the mind of God.

1 Corinthians 2:16
[16]For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.

1 Corinthians 2:10-11
[10] But God hath revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.

[11]For what man knoweth the things of a man, save the spirit of man which is in him? even so the things of God knoweth no man, but the Spirit of God.

But how can you know the mind of God whom you have not walked with? Disobeying simple instructions given to you by God and you think you can be humbled enough to know the mind of God by the same Spirit you are disobeying🤔🤔

We are coming into this one. Tonight 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻 IMPORTANCE OF SINGLENESS

Just as I said we are learning it the God’s way😂😂😂 ( A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP)

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