Episode 05

IMPORTANCE OF SINGLENESS

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Most of times we have heard of the word “single” what comes into our minds is something quite funny “a very funny and lonely state of a person’s life”
And most of us have treated it in a funny way

The moment you go to church or when with your friends and say “I’m single”. The next question they are going to ask you is “so… when are you planning to get married….. when are you planning to live with someone?” And the way they ask this kind of a question is in a manner that is intended to make you feel like you are so behind in life.

The way they ask you is like “😳😳🧐 brother are you from Pluto or other forgoten planet out there?🧐”
😂😂

We have been trained to take singleness as something very strange for a young man/woman.

They call fornication “a normal relationship”, and singleness, “a loss.”

If it is a girl that has never been in any relationship, you will hear her friends counting her as someone who is missing something, like a baby maybe, someone who has not grown up yet.

And then we have people rushing into some dangerous Relationships, ruining their dignities and values to some dogs in the streets, that knows nothing about life or respect.

Now if young people are not taught how important singleness is, we are going to have a generation of fornicators, because the world has got it’s own way of training children of vipers. That is against the doctrine of Truth.

Some people as I have been seeing, even from the churches, and other places, get into relations because of pressure, because his friend is getting married, then you see the pastor coming to him “hivi keki yako tunakula lini, oa bhana umeshakuwa mtu mzima😂😂😂”

Now listen to this

“Singleness is not a disease, but rather a golden opportunity given to you by God to get prepared and to learn as much as you can, to develop yourself for a better marriage”

If you have gotten into a relationship and then broke up with that fellow, thank God for His mercies that are too much for you. Because you were on truck that you could have regreted the whole of your life. Thank God because He has given you another chance to work on yourself.

I said thank God brother/sister. Don’t blame them for leaving you, you were going to a dangerous direction it is better they left before marriage, 😂😂. At least you understood the person you were dealing with. If they betray you when still in courtship, thank God, they could have done it in marriage and the worst part is when you already have a child together😂😂. Thank God for shinning His mercies around you.
Just say “shuuuuuu😰 thank God I’m single again”

Singleness is an opportunity given to you by God to invest more on yourself. Invest more on your character, vision and knowledge so that you can be a better parent that has good stuff to give his/her children

It is a chance that has to be appreciated so much, because once you get into marriage there is no room to correct your mistakes, and if you get in there with a wrong person don’t even think that God will support any divorce unless one of you commits adultery

Are you single? Don’t worry appreciate it that you are on a good ground, stay there and upgrade yourself

© HEAVENLIFE NETWORK MINISTRIES 2021

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