A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP (The God’s way) Episode 09

IMPORTANCE OF SINGLENESS ~ Part 4 ( Self-awareness)


Last time I said something when we were talking about purposes and I said that it is very important thing to have a relationship with Jesus Christ first before anything else. Jesus must be your priority in life than anything else.

Because when you have found Jesus, you will come to realize that you are the one who has been found, and in the process you will understand that you have now found yourself in Him.

Having an encounter with God is the most precious thing that you must go after above anything else.

And He (Jesus) will open your eyes to see visions concerning your life here on Earth. And by the vision you are having you will be able to master your own life according to the VISION you have acquired from the Lord. The desire that you have in this life to accomplish~that is your vision

You become visionarie with a mission.

You cannot just end up with anybody, you will become selective according to your vision. Not any man/ woman will be for you. Your vision will separate you from some environments that are not related to your purpose.

As the Bible saysπŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»

Proverbs 29:18
[18] Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.

Pasipo maono, watu huacha kujizuia; Bali ana heri mtu yule aishikaye sheria.

You will not just get married to just anyone because they are beautiful/handsomeπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. You will be smart to check many qualities until you come to conclusion.

You will be led by the kind of vision you have acquired concerning your life. VISION will speak

Are you getting this? (Visions speak)πŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»πŸ‘‡πŸ»

Habakkuk 2:3
[3]For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.

This kind of VISION speaks, it is a vision which is able to utter statements

The Bible says “at the end it shall speak”

At the time where you have seen a lady or a gentleman and you are now confused because you have seen every qualifications you wanted to see in him/her. And you don’t know if he/she is of God, you don’t know if he/she is able to help carry your assignment. You don’t know if your purpose is safe in those hands or not. At that time The Bible says “VISION shall speak”. It shall verify what you are seeing in front of you.

VISION shall speak for you to verify anything that stands before you. Vision is like a scannerπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚, scanning every document that comes before you to see if it suits your purpose or not.
It sees if the QR code matches.
Vision is “an invested voice of God in your life”

At the time when you will require God to speak to you through dreams, VISION will come quick to speak for you, you will not need to fast and pray for that, visions will be quicker to speak than you expected

The good thing about vision is that it doesn’t only look at you, but that kind of eye is smart enough to measure the capacity of that fellow.

And when it says No, usijiongeze😊

Now let’s me explain something from the scripture that we just read at the first place Proverbs 29: 18
Where there is no vision, people perish

As much as we are talking about self awareness here, understand that the scripture is identifying the importance of a location when it comes to visions.
It says “where” meaning a place

And the best place to have a vision is in Christ Jesus

Jesus is a ready made location for you, to stand and see well. See from a location called JESUS.

The issue is not what you are seeing, but from where are you acquiring the vision from?

Listen to this child of God,

The accuracy of your vision depends on where you are looking at it from. When God wanted Moses to see the promised land, God called him up to a mountain and showed him the beauty of the land, and said “look at the land which I promised to your fathers, you shall see but shall not enter in”.

An eagle is a very accurate bird when it comes to sight. But as much as the eagle is on the ground no matter how sharp the eyes are still it can’t see further, it only when the eagle is up in the sky that it sees clearly and better. And when in the skies it doesn’t miss a target.

So location is very important, when it comes to acquiring visions

Understanding yourself includes understanding where you are supposed to be for you to see better. Knowing places that you need to visit, people that you need to spend time with, documents that you need to read, kinds of movies that are suitable for you, stuffs that you need to learn. All this stand as a location.

Yet the best location of all is Christ Jesus, He will lead you to places, He will direct you to what you need to have and what you need to learn and what kind of people you need to keep around you to maintain what you are seeing.

Listen, even marriage is a location too, it can block your visions or widen up your visions. So care is needed when choosing locations.

The Bible says “we are hidden in Christ Jesus”
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Colossians 3:3-4
[3]For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.

[4]When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.

Before you discover the one to get married to, please discover yourself first

It is impossible to discover the one to get married to before you can discover yourself.

So singleness is a better state of self discovery and self development

Understand your potentials, your values, your priorities, your taste. Before you can get to understand another person

Get the understanding experience by learning more about you. Than other person, because the moment you fail to understand yourself, you will get yourselves into fights and miseries. Unnecessary pains.. because you will not be able to tell whether that behavior he/she is showing you is the reflection of your own character that you couldn’t trace or notπŸ€”

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