A JOURNEY TOWARDS MEETING A LIFE PARTNER ( Episode 10)
Now that you know🤔🤔
Now let me talk to both ladies and gentlemen. We have learned quite many things and this subject has been long according to the way it was arranged. We are now at the bridge, where you are crossing to other side. Listen to this it will help you.
- You are only ready for a partner when you are not in need of a partner
We’ve learned about Adam, the guy was so focused on his vision, until God Himself had to disturb him by making him sleep.
When you have the desire to have a partner is a sure sign that you don’t need one, but when you feel okay with yourself is a sign that you are now ready for one.
- Don’t marry because your friends are all married don’t let your life be a copy of others lives. God created you in a very unique way. Don’t be moved by the fact that all around you are getting married except you, infact glorify God for that. God knows what is best for you, wait.
Peer pressure, and pressure from parents and some believers has led to some people getting into wrong people. And later they regret the reason they married/were married.
- Don’t look for a partner because you feel as if you are not perfect without a partner.
Learn to live with yourself first, this is a very crucial thing, a helper only comes to assist with a discovered purpose. Master your potentials. God didn’t create 50 50, whatever He made was perfect.
Deuteronomy 32:4
[4]He is the Rock, his work is perfect: for all his ways are judgment: a God of truth and without iniquity, just and right is he.
Yeye Mwamba, kazi yake ni kamilifu; Maana, njia zake zote ni haki. Mungu wa uaminifu, asiye na uovu, Yeye ndiye mwenye haki na adili.
Learn to appreciate yourself, you are perfect the way you are, you are 100% perfect.
If you are the workmanship of God then you are perfect
Most people think that if you are single then something must be wrong with you, there is nothing wrong with singleness, infact singleness never end even in marriage
Even after marriage you will still be single
Singleness is healthy, but when you are not single that is when you have problems🤔🤔
If you are married and you are not single, you have a disease fighting you and your marriage.
Now let me explain what I mean here😂😂
If you are a man, you are 100%perfect without a woman
If you are a woman, you are 100% perfect without a man
When you join for marriage this is the formula👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
100% +100% =100%
Let us hear from our Lord Jesus, our God.
Mark 10:8
[8]And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
na hao wawili watakuwa mwili mmoja; hata wamekuwa si wawili tena, bali mwili mmoja.
This is your God, not any prophet in the Bible, God Himself is making this statement.
When you are married, joined together with your wife, you become ONE ( a single thing)
Hello hello hello hello hello😂😂😂, are you getting this?.
So when you are married and asked “are you single or you are married” just say “I’m more single than I was before” you are not double, you are SINGLE.
The moment you get into marriage the more single you become.
If you think that you are double, just because you are married, then I think you have to explain yourself well to your partner, and tell her where is that one that makes you double. It means you are cheating😂😂
Listen, we just read a scripture from God, so if you have another term like double or I’m not single😂😂, then you have to explain yourself to God and to your partner.
Single + single = Single
You and your wife God sees you as ONE
This is the reason if you hate your partner then you hate yourself, if you despise your partner then you despise yourself. You avoid your partner you are avoiding yourself.
I’m not speaking my words here😂, let me show you.
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Ephesians 5:28
[28]So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
Vivyo hivyo imewapasa waume nao kuwapenda wake zao kama miili yao wenyewe. Ampendaye mkewe hujipenda mwenyewe.
Did you see that🤔
No matter how well you dress, doesn’t convince me that you love and care about yourself, let me see the way you treat your partner, and I’ll tell whether you love or hate yourself.
Unavaa misuti, mkeo nyumbani anashindia madera, you are not looking smart, you are just as ugly as your wife.😂😂
She is a reflection of you
Your husband is also a reflection of you, unashinda kwenye kioo kupaka unga wa udaga usoni (poda), mdomo kama wa paka mwizi. Then your husband is shaggy, you are just as ugly as your husband.
Let me come back to my point
👉🏻 God made you perfect as you are, appreciate yourself, you don’t need a partner to be perfect. Don’t seek for a partner because you want to be perfect no.
- Don’t marry because of expectations.
It is better you look for what you are going to give to your marriage rather than what your marriage is going to give you.
Don’t marry because you want someone to cook for you, or you want a man who will be carrying you, and bebifying you every time, the one even if you have finished cooking he comes and be like “baby sorry are you hurt, let me see😂😂.
Ladies love the caring guys so much to an extent that they can’t even tell who is pretending and who is not.
And guys know this, so they can pretend to be caring, and the moment you get into the marriage, everything changes, you are now beginning to miss the guy who was caring during courtship. You have a man but that caring one is missing now.
This is the reason it is good to get along with someone who is real first to himself then to you.
If expectations are the ones that drive you into marriage then there is no guarantee that that marriage will last long, because the moment you miss what you expected you will begin finding it outside. And that is beginning of bitterness
What then
Marry or get married to, because you want to fulfill God’s purpose and you are a responsible person,
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