A JOURNEY TOWARDS MEETING A LIFE PARTNER( Part 12)
The bridge
Cont…
The devil has given this wonderful blessing called marriage a very evil definition. And now people are very afraid to get in a marriage.
By putting wrong people in front of them, now people have learned a wrong lesson concerning marriage and courtship
God never intended you to suffer, in the marriage. He designed it to be a place of pleasure and Joy, a place where everything you see is the hand of God in your life
👉🏻 I called the title for this session ( a bridge), because it is a special gap between the moment before courtship and after courtship.
Here is where most secret is discovered.
Let’s flow👇🏻👇🏻
The Bible talks about the mystery of union between the two. And in His speech, Jesus mentions something very profound when He talks about divorce (separation), and He says that “in the beginning it was not so” but because of the hardness of your hearts….,
Meaning that God never intended there to be a separation between people that He joined together.
The mystery of union and separation
I am teaching you this so that you may know how serious, the decision you want to make is.
There is something that Jesus said when He was asked concerning divorce. And He said something very powerful concerning the union.
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Matthew 19:6
[6]Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Hata wamekuwa si wawili tena, bali mwili mmoja. Basi aliowaunganisha Mungu, mwanadamu asiwatenganishe.
And my question is, when exactly did God join the two?, Is it at the wedding ceremony? Or when exactly?
How can you say that what God has joined when the person I saw standing on the pulpit was a preacher?, this statement is so suicidal.
And if by the act of the preacher/priest in the pulpit, is God connecting the two, why then do we have separations and misbehaviours after the wedding as if God was never in between the two?
Why is it so loose then, if it was the ring and the statement the preacher spoke on the pulpit was God connecting the two
There is what the preacher says at the weddings, quoting this statement “what God has joined no man can separate”,
This statement is wrongly positioned, there are conditions that must be observed before uttering this suicidal statement.
What if that gentleman was forced by his parents or his pastor to marry that lady and leave the one that he intended to marry? And you are busy telling me that God has joined that, really?🤔
What if that gentleman just interfered someone’s relationship and the lady had no option because she was put on pressure by her relatives, she had to listen to them, violating the will of God, then a priest with no Holy Spirit, stands up with a loud voice “what God has joined….” Did God say to you that He is the one who joined the two?😳
Now listen to this,
It is God who joins people for marriage, this means that there are some relationships that God never joined, yet the weddings were conducted at the church.
If what God has joined no man can set apart, then that means we have the power to separate what God has never joined as servants of God who minister the will of God”
So people have power to separate only what God has never joined, by the help of the Holy Spirit.
Because there are some people who joined themselves by their own will, and not the will of God. It was never the will of God for them to be husband and wife, but they thought they were so close so they joined themselves, and God was never a part of that union.
These are the ones that when I come and say, you have to leave that fellow, then they are like “but but but but…… you know but but but God but but”😂😂😂, they are busy bargaining with God.
I am coming by the Holy Spirit, given by God’s grace to know what is the perfect will of God that you are too blinded to see, then you don’t understand your creator, you better die in a wrong decision rather than thanking God for showing up before.
Some marriages, if you are Spiritual enough, you just look at them and the Holy Spirit tells you I didn’t join this, yaani kwenye list ya wanandoa mbinguni ya kwako haipo, and you find these fellow struggling a lot with the marriage, and God says it was not me who joined this
Now listen to this
When and where exactly does God join the two?
Is it at the wedding ceremony? NOO.!!
It is way back at the very beginning of your relationship,
God draws you nearer and nearer, and it comes a moment when you now reach an agreement, that “we are now starting this relationship focusing on having a family together as a husband and wife” at that point is when God honors the agreement between the two, and from there we can now say God has joined the two
So it become an agreement between both of you and God who brought you together, that agreement has to be a response of your obedience to the voice of God. When God passed that lady before and you found peace with here, 😂😂, when you are now going to start courting, that courtship is as a result of your fear and obedience in the Lord. And God honors it, from there we say “God has joined you”. So every person has to obey that,
Yaani tokea hapo mbinti ukimwambia mtu kuwa una mchumba anatakiwa akae kando kabisa na akupe heshima unayostahili, na akiendelea kukusumbua basi atakuwa hakuheshimu na anatafuta ikiwezekana matusi kutoka kwako, huyo anakuwa jeuri mpuuzi na mweu mweusi
So you have to be honored and handled with care, respecting that union.
Now wedding ceremony comes as an honor to the union that God has done, it is a celebration of the work which God has done. Because God has joined it, people must honor it by celebration. And when the pastor says “what God has joined no man can set apart” that statement doesn’t mean that He is joining you at that moment, no. The pastor is confessing what God has done, he is declaring the reason we are celebrating in the ears of many.
We celebrate God who knows how to match people, by conducting a wedding ceremony.
In my life I know that God whom I serve with all diligence, will not allow me to confess such a statement, to those that God never joined, if I say that statement to wrong people, then I will be lying. And I don’t want to be a false prophet.
Unakuta watu wameshazini wakiwa wachumba wakajikunyata eti “pastor tubariki”
As long as my spirit is connected to the Holy Spirit, sitokuwa limbukeni kiasi hicho.
Some mmekutana tu kwa tamaa zenu, risking your purposes mpaka Roho Mtakatifu anaugua, halafu unakuta pastor yupo busy na kanzu ndeefu “alichokiunganisha MUNGU….” When?, where?, How? 😳
Now, GOD DOESN’T ENJOY SEPARATION hata kwenye uchumba. God cannot join you to separate you. No. It pains God, when the people He has joined are now separate.
Kuna huu usemi kwamba “uchumba unavunjika” yes, but there are conditions. Mpaka ifikie huko, though MUNGU hapendi kuona alichokiunganisha kinajitenga. If it is a perfect will of God, it will never fail,
Maybe if both of you become demon possessed to an extent that you can no longer listen to God who started your journey.
Let us get back to our scripture, then check on something, here before we conclude tonight👇🏻👇🏻
Matthew 19:6
[6]Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Hata wamekuwa si wawili tena, bali mwili mmoja. Basi aliowaunganisha Mungu, mwanadamu asiwatenganishe.
He is saying “..let no man separate”.
Meaning there are some people who don’t even respect Godly union, they are so gifted in the area of separating others.
They have PhD ( Permanent head damage😂) in separating others.
That part stands as a warning. If God has joined it don’t dare separating it, you will be bringing evil upon yourself.
I’m saying if only God has joined it, but if God is never a part of that union, then you can help those two to a right path.
Then Jesus Christ went on saying👇🏻👇🏻
Matthew 19:8
[8]He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
Akawaambia, Musa, kwa sababu ya ugumu wa mioyo yenu, aliwapa ruhusa kuwaacha wake zenu; lakini tangu mwanzo haikuwa hivi.
So there is what makes a person to separate from his partner, and that was never the intention of God from the beginning. But because of hardness of the hearts.
There are somethings that God allows to happen not because it pleases Him but because of the hardness of the hearts.
When you are busy defining your relationship in a wrong way. The woman that was supposed to enjoy in your arms, is now crying, and regretting why she met with a person like you, who is never understanding.
Someone who think that all women are harlots,
The words you keep on speaking to her ears hurt her every single day. The only thing she does is crying to God, asking God difficult questions.
A man who has been swallowed with jealous to an extent that he has been blinded by it, he doesn’t think twice about what he speaks to his wife. The wife is hurt every day with the wrong attitude you have towards her. Just wait one day God will tell her to leave, that’s is when you will know the significance of keeping your mouth, and the dangers of speaking things that you never have proof of.
When she will now leave you to look for the one you want😂😂, you will come and tell the story to me, I’ll be listening😂😂
To be continued…
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