A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP ( The God’s way) Season 02

A JOURNEY TOWARDS MEETING A LIFE PARTNER ( Part 11)


The Bridge🌉


Naomba tugusie kidogo about relationships, I’m still going on with it…

And I believe after this kuna neema itakuja juu yako and you will not miss it again in marriage, hutoyumba tena, the Lord will be your light, leading you to the right person

You shall enjoy your wife/husband.

Your marriage will be like a paradise where God’s glory is manifested, with all wonderful blessing.

The devil doesn’t want this ndio maana he’s busy letting wrong people in your way. So that you will have a crooked definition of Relationship and marriage.

There is a God’s vision of Relationship and marriage, the perfect will of God to give you garden, a beautiful garden full of every good fruits, (love, Joy, happiness, hope, peace, cheerful Children, prosperity. etc). This is God’s perspective of love. He wants you to enjoy. All trainings we have had is to switch your view of Relationship to turn into God’s view.

The issue of Relationships is not as complicated as we think. It is us who are complicated, we are complicating the whole idea.

Having a life partner is something amazing, it’s God’s perfect will that you have a life partner that will stand with you and together you enjoy this life and have joy abundantly in Christ.

You can enjoy full love in Christ together with your partner.

The devil has given this wonderful vision, a crooked definition, people have defined Relationship as a trap, when it is not a trap, God has not designed Relationship to trap anyone. The devil has set wrong ways and wrong people around you to let you define God’s blessings as a place of mess.

If you get around the world, people are crying because of this issues, because they have been hurt badly to an extent that they don’t want to get over it again. Wrong people have given marriage a very wrong definition

Whenever you hear marriage, the only thing you hear is “betrayal, unfaithfulness, imorality, bitterness, pain, hurts, etc”. Yet this is not the way God designed it to be.

Whatever people talk outside on the social media concerning Relationships, most of them is as a result of their definition that has been empowered by wrong experiences.

Now, you have heard me talking about wrong people.

Wrong people are not always evil, but every evil person is a wrong person

So it is very important to check who are you listening to when it comes to relationships. What posts empower you? And who posts them. Not every posts concerning men/women is correct. As a child of God everything has to be measured according to the word of God.

Not every wrong person is an evil person, but every evil person is a wrong person

When I say wrong person, I mean

  1. An evil person, that person who is immorally minded. That fellow who is lusting over your, that lady who wants to be with you because of your money or because of her own interests, that person who is used by the devil to trap you, the one comes into your life to distract you intentionally sent by the devil to you. That fornicative brother/sister.
  2. Someone who is not fit for you might be because of imarturity or some ignorance and carelessness. Or the one that doesn’t value your way, simply because she/he is not of the same path. They are not evil, but if given a chance they might turn evil too, because the devil might use their imarturity as an ingredient.

The second category can turn evil if wrongly handled, when placed on a position that they are not supposed to be.

A born again Christian, yet young in the Lord, introducing relationships to such a person, you will be misleading her. And all her ignorance will bring you pain and you might end up loosing her to the devil.

So we are here learning it the God’s way, returning the God’s view of courtship and marriage to you. Healing the hearts that were wounded before, if you were wounded before is because you didn’t know about this, but now we are learning here so that you can know what God’s perfect will is for you.

Everything has to be done perfectly according to the way God wants it, and that is what brings blessings to marriages and families.

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