COURTSHIP DEFINED ( The law of isolation ~ Genesis 2:24) Ep 03
👉🏻 Marriage is a location that has it’s own principles.
👉🏻 You can’t use the principle of the first location at the second location.
👉🏻 It is a covenant that needs isolation, just like the covenant of salvation
Continuing…
From here I believe you can now understand the reason I said, “marriage is only for the born again christians.”
It is a shadow of the relationship between the church and Christ Jesus. And the only people allowed to protray such a picture here on Earth are the believers. There are many places that we are going to pick from the Bible and we are going to see the mind of God concerning marriages.
If you see a non believer getting married, understand that they are using God’s system that they don’t understand for their own ambitions. And God is against such marriages.
I am one person who doesn’t believe in separations, once two people have started courting. God doesn’t enjoy separations even in courtship. God is not happy when two people who have come into agreement for marriage, part ways.
Listen to me very carefully, listen to me very carefully child of God so that you don’t use your life for rehearsals.
Kuna huu usemi unaotumika sana kwamba “uchumba unavunjika”. Na wengi wametumia hii kauli kuhalalisha mahusiano holela yasiyomhusisha MUNGU. They are getting blindly into any relationship with any they find, hopping to break it someday. You are putting your life at risk, there are some things in your life that you should never temper with, there are things in your body that you should not temper with, I’m talking about emotions and attitudes. Life is not a rehearsal
If we take this lightly we might end up allowing fornication in churches, where one man proposes almost every lady he finds in the church, and one lady accepting proposals from boys that were just lusting after her. No purpose at all, they are putting their lives at risk, hivi unafikiri kwa nini mabinti wengi, ukisikia yupo kwenye mahusiano lazima utasikia na story nyingine nyuma, lazima utasikia alishawahi kwenda alikopanga huyo kijana and they slept there. What kind of a rubbish is this?😡😡 Aliamini kwamba ni kitu kinavunjika tu unaweza badilisha kirahisi tu. Imagine the very first time you are proposed na kijana mbovu, before realizing whether you should get out or not, tayari umeshachafuliwa dhambini, Your dignity as a woman is taken away from you. Just in the name of trying people.
You have forsaken Jesus, you have abandoned your destiny, you now have no difference from a prostitute. Your nakedness is already known by some foolish dog, who keeps on fornicating with foolish ladies out there, and you have now joined the list of the women he has insulted in such a way. All because you were trying and busy hopping to break it.
Nasema haya kwa machungu sana, wanangu mfike mahali muwe zao bora ambalo Yesu anajivunia.
Mimi ni mtu ambaye huwa ni ngumu sana kusave namba ya mtu kwenye simu yangu. But I have managed to save some few contacts ili niweze kuwafikia hao wahusika kirahisi. And I’m also a prophet, don’t undermine that office. There is a time I could be checking my contacts, and whenever I get across any contact, I begin to see the life of the owner of that specific contact. Some of the contacts what I see are dogs because of the kind of life they live, may God have mercy on people.
Now let’s get into what I mean when I say “God doesn’t enjoy breakups”
Let’s get our readings from the book of Mark
Mark 10:9
[9] What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Basi alichokiunganisha Mungu, mwanadamu asikitenganishe.
Now hear me here very carefully.
This is a statement that we mostly hear during wedding ceremony. When a pastor or a priest with a very long robe, after reading many statements from a small book, then he rephrases that “whatever God has joined, no man shall separate”. But even after such a declaration, after few years we are going to see the same couple running to men seeking divorce or one of them cheating😂😂.
And my question is ‘did we not hear correctly when it was mentioned right before us that God joined both of you?”
Why then are you going to men seeking separation.?
God can’t make a mistake, why then after one month you feel like you are married to a wrong guy?
With all that public kissing during your wedding😂😂😂( we even covered the eyes of our children not to see you kissing), after it was declared that “God has joined you”, why then do you want to run away from God’s union😂😂? Is it now that you realize that it wasn’t God who joined you? You are telling us that, that pastor was wrong by saying that right?
Let me explain something here that we must understand.
WHEN EXACTLY DOES GOD JOIN A MAN AND THE WOMAN? Is it during the wedding or before courtship?🤔🤔🤔.
After you have lived faithfully with God all along, God has trained you basing on your relationship with Him up to a level where He can now trust you with a partner. To assist you in carrying His assignment for you here on Earth. That partner was also being prepared by the same God to fit you.
So God will make a way for both of you to meet, at any environment. You know some met at the college, some at the church, some at work places, some depending on the location where that partner is. And when He has brought you together and you begin having interest in each other ( knowing that it is the perfect will of God and it is God that has brought you together) you find more about God in that partner.
Remember a right relationship, will always boost you closer to God. The more you get closer to that partner is the more God becomes real to you. This is a very good indicator of the right person in your life.
Any relationship that lead you to compromise your principles as a child of God, is a wrong one. Run away from it.
When you are in the right relationship, the number one thing that is supposed to be growing inside both of you is the love for God right relationship is the one which opens your eyes to understand God in a very wide dimension. God becomes real even more than you used to know Him before. When you see that, know that God is celebrating both of you and He is supporting your relationship 100%, and even willing to do anything just for the two of you😊😊
So when two people who are destined by God for each other meet and then come into agreement to start courting, and set a marriage. The very moment they reach that agreement is when God joins them because it is God who has brought them together. Now let no one temper with such a relationship.
There are some gentlemen who don’t have respect for anything, unaenda kwa mbinti anakuambia tayari ana mchumba, bado unakazana tu. Huu ni utovu mkubwa wa nidhamu and if you do such to a relationship that God Himself has joined, then you are calling curses upon yourself and your generation.
After these two people have been joined this way, by God. They enter courtship, for the following reasons.
1: It gives both of you time to study and to know each other ( in a positive way) meaning that they get time to know how to go well with one another, for what God has trusted them with.
2. To give others ( parents) time to understand them and God’s agenda for them Parents are a very important part of this, since they are the ones who have been with you ever since you were young. God respects their position, since it is very important. They need time to understand both of you, so that when they also come to agree and give their blessings, they will be blessing what they fully understand and appreciate God for. Since God is a God of order. God doesn’t steal you from your parents, He has a very open way of leading you to your destiny from your parents.
There are people who are very careless about this, they have ruined even the good Relationship because they were not open to their parents and they ignored parents.
4: It is a good time to show yourself before pastors and let them guide you on how to keep yourself and have a blessed marriage. Pastor are very important since they act as conduits of God’s will in your life, they are given by God to see somethings that you could not see, because of your position, they are there to pray for you to make sure it all goes well with both of you. Sometimes they even stand as parents where parents may fail.
5. Courtship gives you time to prepare yourself financially for the family
Here is where the time taken is very important depending on where you are economically, some who can just figure themselves quickly get shorter time than those who are still preparing for a long time. Here is where you need to support each other to make sure that your family is well sustained. uchumba sio muda wa kuhakiki kama ndiye ama siye🤨🤨. Courtship is not a place for that. Ukiona wewe ni wa dizaini hii, mmeshapatana ndo unakimbia kwa prophet “mtumishi naomba uniambie ndiye au siye mtu sahihi”. Kwani mpaka unampa muda wako na mnaafikiana hukujua tu kama ndiye au siye. Hata watumishi wa MUNGU mnatuchosha😂😂😂. Kwa nini hukuja kuuliza mmeshamalizana huko ndio unakimbia kujua kama ndiye au siye. I promise I will not take part in this confusion, ukija kwa staili hii nakutimuaa. Huo upofu ukutafune wewe tu. Unatakiwa uhakiki kabla hata ya kusema ndio. Uchumba una kazi zake, sio sehemu ya watu wanaojitafuta bado. Sio sehemu ya majaribio. Ni sehemu ya kupanga hatima, ukijua kwamba huyo ndiye mtu sahihi na hakuna tena mwingine.
I end tonight’s session by saying, “God doesn’t enjoy separations”. Acha kucheza bahati nasibu na MUNGU. Kama huna nidhamu ya kumsikiliza Roho Mtakatifu, kaa chini. Usiipe mitihani hatima ya wenzako.
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