MARRIAGE DEFINED – COURTSHIP STAGE

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Last series we dealt with
1. The general view of the relationship concept
2. The introduction to self discovery and self awareness
3. Qualities of a wife/husband material
4. The road to courtship

Where we saw many things in a broader way. And Tonight I’m gonna proceed right from the final episode of season two of this subject. And we are going to deal with something very special and that is THE DEFINITION OF A MARRIAGE And our very first part we are going to deal with COURTSHIP

I’m not going to be dealing with how to know the right person in details as I have been doing in the previous series but rather I’m going to be dealing with courtship and how to make it well into the marriage, when you have the right person with you.

Again listen to me very carefully child of God

You might not be in the marriage yet, I might not be there too, but whatever we learn here are authorized by the mouth of God, they are inspired by the Spirit of God, so follow this teaching very seriously and keenly, and let the Holy Spirit teach you

As I’m texting here I know that there are some of us here who have messed up already, some ladies who have engaged in a wrong relationship as I am teaching you here right now

The Lord has sent me to open your eyes so that you can escape, I’m seeing ladies and women who have been humiliated in the marriage, their stories are everywhere, they have run to and fro for advice and it’s like none has benefited them

👉🏻 there are people who have failed to get along well with the right people in their lives and this has caused confusion to many

The problem might not always be the wrong relationship, but there are others right in the right relationship yet they have failed to keep it. Because of some ignorance and lack of knowledge

In everything you do in life there is a way of entering, a way of staying (maintaining the place) and a way of leaving the place

You might be having a very right and God given person but the way you enter may predict how you are gonna end

Kuna hiki kitu kinaitwa kuharibiana maisha, (though I don’t really believe in this, I’ll tell you why next time😊😊) na maana ya hili neno haimaanishi tu kule kuingia kwenye mahusiano mabaya, lakini hata kukosa utaratibu unaoeleweka kwenye mahusiano uliopewa na MUNGU pia kunaweza kuharibu kila kitu.

The way you start your relationship may end up ruining everything

Now check this

The reason why God is giving you that fellow, is that

1. So that you can have a life partner, a helper ( someone who will assist you and go together with you to fulfill your assignment)

And this is the reason I said last time that it is very important to discover your assignment and to discover yourself in your purpose, before going around looking for a partner. Because a partner comes to assist the assignment, if you have failed to discover your assignment then don’t ask God for a wife/husband. You are wasting time. Shut up

That man/ that woman is coming to assist the assignment, if there is no assignment to assist then you don’t need him/her. Huku ndiko uharibifu unapopokea. You need a husband/ a wife, what for. You have not even understood how much you need yourself😁😁 yet you are busy crying for a partner. You are just childish🤨🤨

2. God gives you a partner so that He can raise a generation of God fearers if you are not born again, marriage is not for you. Instead of raising God fearing generation, you will be busy raising devils, and these are the people who give us problems in this country ooh🤨

So, marriage is only for the born again christians marriage is meant for soul winning. God is not happy when sinners get married, He doesn’t support such marriages.

You can’t see people who are not in the right track with God getting married and then you hear a priest saying “alichokiunganisha MUNGU mwanadamu asikitenganishe” duh what God?😳. God doesn’t unite such marriages. They are not even in the book of God😂😂😂

So your knowledge of God in God is very important, first before you engage yourself in a marriage,.

Adam lived with God first before eve could come. And right there he received instructions on how to stay in Eden (the presence of God)

You hear a certain Nickolas Masendeu who knows nothing about God, saying “nataka kuoa” you must have been smoking that doesn’t help you at all🤨🤨

We have taken marriage so lightly nowadays, yet this is something that the Lord has blessed for His own agenda

So marriage is for
Soul winning and a good way of fulfilling your assignment well

Now let’s talk about this and now I’m talking with those who know God, they are in the right way with God and God is now about to bless them with a life partner

Let’s talk about COURTSHIP