COURTSHIP DEFINED
Yesterday I said that there is a condition that you must keep before courtship. And that is “divorce”.
And when I say divorce, what I mean is you separating yourself fully from your former life, separating yourself from the former things you used to enjoy.
Even if they benefited you, you still have to abandon them because of the new person that God is bringing in your life.
If you bring them with you, you might end up messing things up
Leaving everything that you used to rely on, behind you, for your wife/husband is a sure sign that you are really martured enough up to a level where you can defend your partner from your past, your environment, and even protecting him/her from yourself🤔🤔
Mark that word “protecting her/him from you”. There are some foolish characters that look like harmless but they have ruined the strongest relationships ever. When you become too careless with the person God has given you.
If you are a man and still crying to your parents for pocket money, you are still a boy, don’t mess that girl’s life. Boys and girls are messy, they don’t understand a thing yet they think they have mastered everything.
And my question is to you girls who end up with such people, a man is still under the custody of the parents, you know that very well and you still bebifying yourself
Who has bewitched you? What kind of a degree is that, that has blinded you so much, believing that you your future is in the hands of such a boy
Both of them are at university level, you know very well that if ever you are going to see him with some cash, it is his parents money🤔🤔, because he is not working anywhere.
That itself is an indication that the person is still under the custody of the parents, and it is parents that solve much of his/her cases
My point is, if you know that you are close to marriage, then separate yourself from other things that you used to rely on. Ready to be of one mind with your coming partner.
This kind of isolation is not what you do today and tomorrow you are on the road singing to ladies,😂😂 mixing your Swahili and Chinese and English. Before expressing your broken English to anyone you need to take time to learn to take matters in your hands, it is a long process until you fully isolate yourself from your family and past life.
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