COURTSHIP DEFINED ( the law of maintainance)
Continues….
👉🏻 God doesn’t enjoy separation👈🏻
Separation means that you made a mistake at the first place, and you are looking for a way to correct it. It means that you made a wrong decision and you are not willing to suffer it’s responsibility. It means you are running away from the responsibility of your irresponsibility
There is something very unique about the gift that comes from God, Bible says👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
Proverbs 10:22
[22] The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.
Baraka ya BWANA hutajirisha, Wala hachanganyi huzuni nayo.
The reason that one is giving you sorrow and problems is very simple. “It never came from God”.
The reason that relationship is now like a hell to you, is because God never started it, you started it alone by your own lust.
You deceived yourself and engaged into a thing that God never started. And now you are getting a hard time in it, because God was never a part of it. If God gives it to you there is no way you are going to feel sorry for having it.
The blessing of God makes rich a godly relationship, is supposed to open your eyes to see at the extremeties you never thought of. It has to be a place for your growth.
Do you know that the reason most people find it difficult to maintain a relationship is because they are so much based on emotions, they are lovers and not best friends
The relationship that is based on emotions ( the babyish-stuff😂😂) can not survive where sound mind is required to operate.
A healthy relationship is supposed to be based on friendship, rather than lover-thing. Emotions are deceptive
Emotions are sometimes deceptive, and this is the reason you find a lady or a gentleman, in a very dangerous relationship, all signs are there so plain. That the fellow is a womanizer, that that guy/lady is still immartured and deceptive. Yet the boy/girl is still crying over such fellow, getting him/her out of such relationship becomes so difficult , because emotions are deceptive sometimes. You are just attached to a grave, and because your mind is already blinded, you are just a blind fellow who is emotionally driven.
A healthy relationship has it’s roots on the spirit and the mind, the flesh comes later.
When your relationship is based on friendship, it gives you a chance of doing many productive things together, and making spiritual and physical progress in a way that pleases God, rather than falling into sin.
There are some fools that whenever they meet is only romance. I call them flabagasted fools. They are taking advantage of each other in a foolish way. They don’t plan a thing concerning the future, they are just like “I love you, I love you too..” nothing productive comes out of their he. As if they are the inventors of relationship. It’s better if you remain single, rather than wasting your life in such a mess
The Bible says👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
Proverbs 6:32
[32] But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
Mtu aziniye na mwanamke hana akili kabisa; Afanya jambo litakalomwangamiza nafsi yake.
If your relationship is only based on, poor self control, emotions. You are a fool
You become a fool, and your thinking ability goes down, when you are emotionally driven.
There is this thing they call “falling in love”🤔🤔
Actually, the truth is, that we don’t fall in love, but we grow in love. Love is not a place to fall, it is a place to grow and increase in.
Falling means loosing yourself and you can’t reason properly. Love doesn’t do that.
Love is not blind, but lust blinds you.
The reason you, sons and daughters, loose focus and everything is because you fell in lust.
If you were growing you could not loose yourself the way, you did.
The love of God has made us see the light, and has brought us to a place of growth and marturity in Him, and in all manner of wisdom. It didn’t make us fall.
The reason yours is crushing you every time, is because you fell, and every time you would wake up, you would find yourself dirty, covered in mud.
And other people fall so bad that they can’t rise anymore😂😂
This kind of love that is making people fall is a strange one.
The only love I have seen so far is the one that helps people to rise and grow
They fall and break their bones😂😂😂, some end up damaging their brains after falling they become crazy; you hear statements like “I’m crazy about you…😂😂”, Not knowing that he is crazy after serious accident😂😂
If you accept a person like this, you are taking a sick person with you. Know that everything about you will be sick (infected). Including your visions, you will be having sick visions 😂😂😂. Like the only thing you can see is both of you in bed. Umekuwa jiiinga la hali ya juu. With a PhD ( 🤭 permanent head damage) in stupidity.
H-LIFE MEDIA 