COURTSHIP REDEFINED ( How to maintain a healthy relationship – 02)
- Self discipline ( cont…)
As a child of God, you must understand the values of a healthy relationship, the godly relationships. There is a very big difference between a godly relationship and fornication.
Paul is saying something very important to Timothy, his son in ministry👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
1 Timothy 4:12
[12] Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.
Mtu awaye yote asiudharau ujana wako, bali uwe kielelezo kwao waaminio, katika usemi na mwenendo, na katika upendo na imani na usafi.
Paul is telling Timothy the significance of keeping his youth. Youthhood is not a place to taste everything, but it is a place to prove your worth.
And he is telling Timothy to be an example to the believers in every aspect of life. Believers standards must be your standards. If you live like devil’s child. You have no portion in God’s matters
Your relationship must glorify God in every aspect.
There is this demon called sex, where people think that the moment you have proposed a lady, or the moment you have reached an agreement to start courting towards a marriage, you are allowed even to sleep with each other. And many have gone out teaching this rubbish among each other.
Most young people have become so childish. They think that sleeping with the right person is not a sin. As much as the person is right for them, they think that now they can go on sleeping around. ( Am talking about some foolish boys and girls from the church😡😡; those that the devil has pooped on their brains).
You are not allowed to go to your fiance’s or fiancee’s house, when in courtship. Sin is just a sin no matter how nicely you want to decorate it.
Whatever looks like sin is simply sin itself.
The moment you do that even if you were in a right relationship, that relationship immediately turns into adultery, the same very moment God is Against you and your relationship. And immediately you are being fought not by the devil but by God Himself.
Now these are the dangers of engaging in sexual activities before marriage,
👉🏻 You will be committing adultery and fornication, by this you will be aborting your relationship
👉🏻 It is an assassination you are killing the only relationship that can keep you for life and everlasting life, your relationship with Jesus Christ. A girl that never knew sin, a gentleman that never knew sin has now been made sinful, just because of such childish character.
Ask yourself this question; When you have a battle with the devil, you run to God, where will you run to when God is against you?
👉🏻 You are calling shame upon yourself there are some parts of your body that only your husband/wife is allowed to see. What happens when someone who is not your husband/wife gets access to your body, is that you will be like a toilet, everyone will despise you including that filthy fellow. What statement will you make and be taken seriously? When you are walking in the streets well dressed with your perfume on and a certain boy/sees you and thinks in their hearts or tell their colleague mwanangu unamuona yule nishampitia 🤔🤔. Although you are in your clothes, but before their eyes you are naked already, they have every picture of your body.
Ogopa sana MUNGU akikuacha.
Do you think that you will honor your husband? Do you think you are honoring your coming wife.
Kama tu kwenye mahusiano hukuweza kujizuia, and your body is known by someone else who is not your husband. Kuna faida gani kumwambia mme wako “nimejilinda sana tokea uschana wangu kwa ajili yako?”
Listen to me, The Bible says something like this👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
Hebrews 13:4
[4] Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Ndoa na iheshimiwe na watu wote, na malazi yawe safi; kwa maana waasherati na wazinzi Mungu atawahukumia adhabu.
Honoring your marriage is not only after marriage, your honor your wife/ you honor your husband, even before knowing that you will marry one day. What I mean is this you keep yourself pure and chaste from your childhood until you meet you are married to your husband/wife. Hii tabia ya vijana kufanya uasherati and yet bado wanamlilia MUNGU awape wake bora is satanic. Ngoja tu niyaanike wazi leo, kwa sababu najua wengi humu na huko nje wamepitia uozo wa namna hii you think that you are not martured enough until you get to bed with someone. You are insulting your marriage.
What indicates that you need the right person is when you yourself become the right person first. Ujalinda utu wako your nakedness is already known everywhere and then you are busy crying, “pastor pastor, when will I get the right person for me?😭😭” Stop this rubbish, become the right person first.
The Bible says na malazi yawe safi how many ladies have slept in your bedroom, how many boys have slept in your bedroom? How many ladies have slept on your chest? How many boys have got access to your body? Do you think that you are honoring the marriage that God has prepared for you in the future? Do you think you will still qualify for goldy marriage or you are disqualifying yourself from the right person.
Honor your marriage even when you don’t know your husband yet. For him/her keep yourself.
Peer pressure, even at the colleges, when ladies begin to talk in their dormitories “are you saying that you have never tried it…never in your entire life?…then you are still a baby…why don’t you give it a try….oh if you try, some problems in your body will be reduced….oh when will you grow up?” and by those kinds of wrong advises, a girl who once honored God, falls into a pit of fornication and adultery.
Your friends are the enemies of your coming marriage, those foolish advisors are the enemies of God’s plans for you. Dont expect the devil to appear to you in a dream for you to know that it is the devil, that very friend of yours, that you call yourselves bestie, that same friend that accompanies you to the market or when you are going to have lunch together, the same can be your devil.
God will never risk His beloved children for you who has failed to keep yourself. God will never risk the right person’s life for the wrong person.
I speak to ladies and I speak to young men. Share this message even to those that dont have access to this platform, let us straighten this generation.
Listen to this learn to honor your husband even if you have never met him, learn to honor your wife even if you never met her
Say to yourself ” because I’m getting ready for a promise of God, because I’m getting ready for the one that God has for me; therefore I will not allow myself to get along with anyone that God doesn’t approve to be my wife/husband.
I will not let my body be touched by anyone who is not my wife or my husband
For the glory of God I will not defile my body, and because I honor my husband/ wife, I will not do anything that doesn’t please God
I hate anybody who will interested in my body, I hate any dog who is hunting to ruin the trust that God has for me.
I am bound to be Holy
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